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Make him/her trust you consciously : Direct Persuasion

Diplomatic behavior:

- etiquette
- manner of communication
- clothes
- the art of listening

Etiquette always affects the thought and ideas of a person about you. If you are polite he/she would rather trust you and like you. Otherwise he/she will resist to communicate with you.

Manner of communication is important also, as you could notice in your environment there are some people that you want to communicate, talk with, and some that you would prefer to stay away.

Clothes, are the very significant for the first impression. As you probably know, the first few minutes are giving the first impression and this impression is difficult to change later. The clothes form the main part of the first impression before starting to communicate. You yourself would probably prefer not to talk to a person whose clothes are unsuitable.

The art of listening is a skill that most of us don’t have, there’s a brilliant point of view about this:
“Every person has many things to talk about, and everyone suffers from that no one listens to him/her. The biggest problem of anyone is to find a listener. But this is impossible to do, because all other people also look for a listener for himself/herself, so they never have time to listen to anyone. The most important point in the art of communication is to listen. Only that persons who listen to us without interrupting become our best friends.”

Smile:
A good, kind smile forms a good first impression. You should smile without any effort. Your smile should give happiness and warmness to people, and people will smile in answer to your smile.
Sometimes you probably see people that have asymmetric smile, a smile that doesn't show that he/she is happy. This smile looks like he/she just have to smile, and that is why he/she is smiling. Some people have some specific face impressions, even if they don’t have any emotions. This is called contracture, I have explained you what contracture is in the previous post.


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